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People may use the following statements to describe themselves. For each statement‚ decide whether the statement is uncharacteristic or characteristic of you using the following 5 point scale. Note that the 3 on the scale is Neutral – the statement is neither characteristic nor uncharacteristic of you. In the box to the right of each statement‚ fill in the number on the 5 point scale that best describes you. Uncharacteristic Uncharacteristic characteristic characteristic 1 2 3 4 5
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I often find myself performing tasks that I had intended to do days before. |
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2.*
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I do not do assignments until just before they are to be handed in. |
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When I am finished with a library book‚ I return it right away regardless of the date it is due. |
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When it is time to get up in the morning‚ I most often get right out of bed. |
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A letter may sit for days after I write it before mailing it. |
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I generally return phone calls promptly. |
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Even with jobs that require little else except sitting down and doing them‚ I find they seldom get done for days. |
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I usually make decisions as soon as possible. |
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I generally delay before starting on work I have to do. |
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I usually have to rush to complete a task on time. |
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11.
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When preparing to go out‚ I am seldom caught having to do something at the last minute. |
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In preparing for some deadline‚ I often waste time by doing other things. |
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I prefer to leave early for an appointment. |
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I usually start an assignment shortly after it is assigned. |
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I often have a task finished sooner than necessary. |
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I always seem to end up shopping for birthday or Christmas gifts at the last minute. |
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17.
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I usually buy even an essential item at the last minute. |
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18.
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I usually accomplish all the things I plan to do in a day. |
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19.
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I am continually saying AI=ll do it tomorrow@. |
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20.
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I usually take care of all the tasks I have to do before I settle down and relax for the evening. |
Note: Reversed-keyed items: 3‚4‚6‚8‚11‚13‚14‚15‚18‚20 Note: * indicates items that differ from student to non-student forms Lay‚ C. (1986). At last‚ my research article on procrastination. Journal of Research in Personality‚ 20‚ 474-495.
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Instructions:
People may use the following statements to describe themselves. For each statement‚ decide whether the statement is uncharacteristic or characteristic of you using the following 5 point scale. Note that the 3 on the scale is Neutral – the statement is neither characteristic nor uncharacteristic of you. In the box to the right of each statement‚ fill in the number on the 5 point scale that best describes you.
Extremely Moderately Neutral Moderately Extremely
Uncharacteristic Uncharacteristic characteristic characteristic 1 2 3 4 5
Note: Reversed-keyed items: 3‚4‚6‚8‚11‚13‚14‚15‚18‚20
Note: * indicates items that differ from student to non-student forms
References
Lay‚ C. (1986). At last‚ my research article on procrastination. Journal of Research in Personality‚ 20‚ 474-495.
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Trust Scale (Rempel‚ Holmes & Zanna‚ 1985) – Trust within close interpersonal relationships
Instructions:
Using the 7 point scale shown below‚ indicate the extent to which you agree or disagree with the following statements as they relate to someone with whom you have a close interpersonal relationship. Place your rating in the box to the right of the statement.
Strongly Neutral Strongly
Disagree Agree
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Scoring
The scale consists of 3 subscales. Predictability (P) that emphasizes the consistency and stability of a partner’s specific behaviours based on past experience‚ Dependability (D) that concentrates on the dispositional qualities of the partner which warrant confidence in the face of risk and potential hurt‚ and Faith (F) that centres on feelings of confidence in the relationship and the responsiveness and caring expected from the partner in the face of an uncertain future.
The total Trust measure is the sum of the 3 subscale totals.
Reference
Rempel‚ J.K.‚ Holmes‚ J.G. & Zanna‚ M.P. (1985). Trust in close relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology‚ 49‚ 95-112.
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1.*
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I find it easy to express feelings of affection toward members of my family.
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T
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F
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Fam
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2.
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Most everyone around me is a stranger.
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T
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F
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Gr
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3.
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I usually wait for a friend to call me up and invite me out before making plans to go anywhere.
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T
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F
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Fr
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4. *
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Most of my friends understand my motives and reasoning.
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T
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F
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Fr
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5.
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At this time‚ I do not have a romantic relationship that means a lot to me.
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T
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F
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R/S
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6.
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I don=t get along very well with my family.
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T
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F
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Fam
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7.*
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I have at least one good friend of the same sex.
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T
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F
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Fr
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I can=t depend on getting moral or financial support from any group or organization in a time of trouble.
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F
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Gr
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9.*
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I am now involved in a romantic or marital relationship where both of us make a genuine effort at cooperation.
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T
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F
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R/S
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10.
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I often become shy and retiring in the company of relatives.
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T
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F
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Fam
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11.*
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Some of my friends will stand by me in almost any difficulty.
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T
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F
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Fr
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12.
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People in my community aren=t really interested in what I think or feel.
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T
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F
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Gr
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13.
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My trying to have friends and to be liked seldom succeeds the way I would like it to.
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F
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14.*
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I spend time talking individually with each member of my family.
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T
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F
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Fam
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I find it difficult to tell anyone that I love him or her.
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T
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F
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R/S
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I don=t have many friends in the city where I live.
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I work well with others in a group.
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I am an important part of the emotional and physical well-being of my lover or spouse.
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I don=t feel that I can turn to my friends living around me for help when I need it.
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I don=t think that anyone in my family really understands me.
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I have a lover or spouse who fulfils many of my emotional needs.
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My friends are generally interested in what I am doing‚ although not to the point of being nosy.
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Members of my family enjoy meeting my friends.
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I allow myself to become close to my friends.
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My relatives are generally too busy with their concerns to bother about my problems.
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Few of my friends understand me the way I want to be understood.
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No one in the community where I live cares much about me.
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Right now‚ I don=t have true compatibility in a romantic or marital relationship.
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Members of my family give me the kind of support that I need.
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A lot of my friendships ultimately turn out to be pretty disappointing.
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My romantic or marital partner gives me much support and encouragement.
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I am not very open with members of my family.
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I often feel resentful about certain actions of my friends.
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I am embarrassed about the way my family behaves.
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People who say they are in love with me are usually only trying to rationalize using me for their own purposes.
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I have a good relationship with most members of my family.
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In my relationships‚ I am generally able to express both positive and negative feelings.
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I don=t get much satisfaction from the groups I attend.
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I get plenty of help and support from friends.
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I seem to have little to say to members of my family.
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I don=t have any one special love relationship in which I feel really understood.
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I really feel that I belong to a family.
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I have few friends with whom I can talk openly.
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My family is quite critical of me.
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I have an active love life.
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46.
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I have few friends that I can depend on to fulfil their end of mutual commitments.
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Generally I feel that members of my family acknowledge my strengths and positive qualities.
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I have at least one real friend.
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49.
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I don=t have any neighbours who would help me out in a time of need.
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Members of my family are relaxed and easy-going with each other.
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T
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I have moved around so much that I find it difficult to maintain lasting friendships.
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I tend to get along well with partners in romantic relationships.
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T
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53.
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I find it difficult to invite a friend to do something with me.
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54.
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I have little contact with members of my family.
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55.
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My friends don=t seem to stay interested in me for long.
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56.*
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There are people in my community who understand my views and beliefs.
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57.
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As much as possible‚ I avoid members of my family.
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T
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F
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Fam
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58.
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I seldom get the emotional security I need from a romantic or sexual relationship.
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T
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59.*
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My family usually values my opinion when a family decision is to be made.
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Fam
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60.*
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Most of my friends are genuinely concerned about my welfare.
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The Cognitive Failures Questionnaire (Broadbent‚ Cooper‚ FitzGerald & Parkes‚ 1982) The following questions are about minor mistakes which everyone makes from time to time‚ but some of which happen more often than others. We want to know how often these things have happened to your in the past 6 months. Please circle the appropriate number.
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Do you read something and find you haven’t been thinking about it and must read it again? |
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Do you find you forget why you went from one part of the house to the other? |
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Do you fail to notice signposts on the road?
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Do you find you confuse right and left when giving directions? |
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Do you bump into people?
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Do you find you forget whether you’ve turned off a light or a fire or locked the door? |
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Do you fail to listen to people’s names when you are meeting them? |
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Do you say something and realize afterwards that it might be taken as insulting? |
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Do you fail to hear people speaking to you when you are doing something else? |
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Do you lose your temper and regret it?
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Do you leave important letters unanswered for days?
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Do you find you forget which way to turn on a road you know well but rarely use? |
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Do you fail to see what you want in a supermarket (although it’s there)? |
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Do you find yourself suddenly wondering whether you’ve used a word correctly? |
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Do you have trouble making up your mind?
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Do you find you forget appointments?
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Do you forget where you put something like a newspaper or a book? |
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Do you find you accidentally throw away the thing you want and keep what you meant to throw away – as in the example of throwing away the matchbox and putting the used match in your pocket? |
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Do you daydream when you ought to be listening to something? |
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Do you find you forget people’s names?
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Do you start doing one thing at home and get distracted into doing something else (unintentionally)? |
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Do you find you can’t quite remember something although it’s “on the tip of your tongue”? |
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Do you find you forget what you came to the shops to buy?
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Do you drop things?
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Do you find you can’t think of anything to say?
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Broadbent‚ D.E.‚ Cooper‚ P.F.‚ FitzGerald‚ P.‚ & Parkes‚ K.R. (1982). The Cognitive Failures Questionnaire (CFQ) and its correlates. British Journal of Clinical Psychology‚ 21‚ 1-16.
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Someone is weaving in and out of traffic.
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A slow vehicle on a mountain road will not pull over and let people by.
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Someone backs right out in front of you without looking.
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Someone runs a red light or stop sign.
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You pass a radar speed trap.
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Someone speeds up when your try to pass him/her.
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Someone is slow in parking and is holding up traffic.
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You are stuck in a traffic jam.
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Someone makes an obscene gesture toward you about your driving.
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Someone honks at you about your driving.
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A bicyclist is riding in the middle of the lane and is slowing traffic.
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A police officer pulls you over.
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A truck kicks up sand or gravel on the car you are driving.
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You are driving behind a large truck and you cannot see around it.
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I feel confident about my abilities.
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P
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I am worried about whether I am regarded as a success or failure.
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I feel satisfied with the way my body looks right now.
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I feel frustrated or rattled about my performance.
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P
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I feel that I am having trouble understanding things that I read.
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P
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I feel that others respect and admire me.
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I am dissatisfied with my weight.
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I feel self-conscious.
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I feel as smart as others.
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P
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I feel displeased with myself.
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I feel good about myself.
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A
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I am pleased with my appearance right now.
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I am worried about what other people think of me.
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S
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I feel confident that I understand things.
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P
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I feel inferior to others at this moment.
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S
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I feel unattractive.
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A
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I feel concerned about the impression I am making.
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S
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I feel that I have less scholastic ability right now than others.
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P
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I feel like I’m not doing well.
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P
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I am worried about looking foolish.
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The letter in the last column indicates the primary factor on which that item loaded in a factor analysis. The three factors were labelled performance self-esteem (P)‚ social self-esteem (S) and appearance self-esteem (A).
Professor of Psychology
Department of Psychology
Faculty of Health
York University
Toronto‚ Ontario
Canada M3J 1P
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